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This reframing is powerful — especially the move from “what’s wrong with the person?” to “what conditions are they trying to survive inside of.”

What stayed with me is the idea that so much of what we label as dysfunction is actually a capacity problem. Not a personal failure, but a system asking more than the body and nervous system can sustainably hold. When you look at it that way, a lot of “symptoms” start to make uncomfortable sense.

I also appreciated the emphasis on small, repeatable actions — not as self-improvement, but as rebuilding signal. That feels very different from the usual “fix yourself” narrative. More like restoring enough stability to actually be in your life again.

It makes me think about how often we try to increase output before restoring capacity — individually and collectively. And how backwards that is. Curious how you think about the tension between the two — if someone is in a constricting environment, where does meaningful capacity-building actually start?

– Kelly

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